ALL ABOUT style and grooming

WEAR YOUR CONFIDENCE. EVEN IF YOU'RE STILL EARNING IT.

"If no one told you how to dress for the man you want to be...how would you know where to start?"

Clothes won't change your life - but they will change how you walk into a room.

This isn't about fashion trends. It's about presence. When you're rebuilding your life, how you look might feel like the last thing on the list - but trust us, it matters more than you think.

Not for others, but for you.

Style isn't shallow. It's a form of non-verbal self-respect. The goal here isn't to impress - it's to express.

Confidence doesn't come from what you wear. But it can start from there.

When you're low, invisible, or unsure of who you are, getting dressed with intention can be your first win of the day. You don't need a designer wardrobe - just a bit of care and clarity.

WHAT YOU'LL FIND ON THIS PAGE

How to dress when you don't know your style (yet)
Budget-friendly tips for building a solid wardrobe
Why your appearance affects your self-image - and how to use that to your advantage
Practical, no-fluff advice for men who want to look better, feel sharper, and stop dressing like they've given up

HOW TO DRESS WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW YOUR STYLE (YET)

AN HONEST STARTER GUIDE FOR MEN WHO WERE NEVER TAUGHT THE BASICS

If no one ever showed you how to dress well, you're not alone.

A lot of us were just told to "throw something on" - and we did. And then we wondered why we felt invisible, awkward, or underprepared.

Style isn't about standing out - it's about showing up.

Here's how to get started:

✅ Start with fit.
You don't need more clothes - you need better fitting ones. Even a plain T-shirt or pair of jeans can look sharp if it fits right. Baggy clothes say you're hiding. Skin-tight ones say you're uncomfortable. Aim for clean lines and a proper fit - shoulders, sleeve and length.

✅ Build around the basics.
Start with timeless, neutral pieces:

Solid T-shirts (white, black, navy, grey, olive)
Slim/straight jeans
Casual jackets (e.g. denim, bomber, or utility jacket)
Clean trainers or desert boots
A good belt

This is your uniform while you figure out your own vibe..or it may even remain your vibe!

✅ Don't chase trends.
You're not here to impress influencers Pick pieces that make you feel ready for the day. Quiet confidence is louder than logos.

✅ Borrow until you own it.
Not sure what works? Look around. Find one or two guys (real or online) whose style you like. Start there. Copy, tweak, evolve.

budget style tips for men rebuilding themselves

You don't need money to dress well - you need intention.

If you're starting again financially, you might think style is a luxury. But the right basics can last for years - and send a quiet signal to yourself and the world that you're not done yet.

Here's how to look good without breaking the bank:

💰 Shop secondhand.
Thrift stores, charity shops, vintage apps - you'd be amazed what's out there. Classic jackets, branded shirts, quality denim - for next to nothing.

🧼 Take care of what you own.
Learn to iron. Wash your clothes properly. Keep your shoes clean. Maintenance is confidence - and it's free.

👕 Layer smart.
A simple black tee under a cheap overshirt can still look intentional. Layers add structure and polish. A cheap outfit, layered well, can look like money.

🥾 Upgrade slowly, not all at once.
One solid item at a time - a great pair of boots, a good jacket, a sharp haircut - can change your whole look without draining your wallet.

🔄 Stick to versatile pieces.
If it doesn't go with at least three other things you own, don't buy it. Less waste. More wear.

budget style tips for men rebuilding themselves

This isn't about vanity.
It's about alignment.

The way you dress is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. And sometimes, dressing as if you respect yourself can help you start believing it again.

Think of it like this:

Wearing clean, fitted clothes = I take myself seriously
Grooming regularly = I haven't given up
Dressing intentionally = I'm showing up for life, not hiding from it

You're not trying to be someone else.
You're reminding yourself - and the world - who you are becoming.

budget style tips for men rebuilding themselves

Style isn't about ego. It's about identity.
You don't need to look like a model - you need to look like you, with clarity.

So, next time you get dressed, ask yourself:
👉 "Does this reflect the man I want to become?"

If not - change something. One piece at a time.

GROOMING

IT'S ABOUT PERSONAL PRIDE, NOT PERFECTION

Grooming isn't just for influencers or Instagram models - it's for men who want to feel better about themselves.

It’s about personal pride.

That moment when you look in the mirror and see a man who’s trying - not to impress the world, but to show up with intention.

You don’t have to be flawless. You just need to give a shit.

Just like wearing clean clothes or standing up straight, grooming tells your brain: I’m worth looking after. It sets a standard - not just for how others see you, but for how you carry yourself when no one’s looking.

BUILD A SIMPLE ROUTINE FOR YOU

You don’t need a 10-step skincare ritual or a shelf full of fancy products. A basic, consistent routine will do the job just fine - especially if you’re getting back on your feet or rebuilding.

Start here:

Face: Wash your face daily. If it’s dry, use moisturiser. If it’s oily, look for oil-control options. Use an SPF to protect your face from harmful UV rays. You'll thank us.
Hair: Use a decent shampoo and conditioner a few times a week. Keep your hair cut if you're going for something shorter, even if it’s just a tidy-up at home. If you want it longer, wash it regularly and keep it tidy.
Beard or shave: Choose your look and stick with it - trim your beard regularly or keep a smooth shave.
Nails: Clip them. Keep them clean. No one likes dirty fingernails, not even you. Be honest.
Smell: A subtle deodorant and one good signature scent goes a long way. No need to overdo it.

Think of this as maintenance - the kind you’d do for anything you care about.

THE WE ARE MENTALITY GROOMING CHECKLIST

Here’s a quick list that you can keep handy - either on your phone, your bathroom mirror, or your “get ready” shelf.

✅ Face wash
✅ Deodorant
✅ Moisturiser
✅ Shampoo and Conditioner
✅ Beard trimmer / razor
✅ Nail clippers
✅ Scent / aftershave
✅ Cottonbuds
✅ Lip balm (especially for colder weather)
✅ Towels and flannels (preferably ones that aren't threadbare)

You can also turn this into a habit tracker if that helps - tick off the basics each week until it becomes second nature.

BUDGET GROOMING KIT FOR MEN REBUILDING THEMSELVES

If money’s tight (which it often is when you're rebuilding), here’s a kit you can put together without breaking the bank. All of these can be bought from a supermarket, Boots/Superdrug, or budget-friendly online stores:

Face wash and moisturiser combo: £4 - £6
2-in-1 Shampoo and conditioner: £2 - £3
Deodorant: £1 -£2
Basic beard trimmer / disposable razors: £5 - £10
One clean scent: Can cost as little as £12 - Noted Aromas specialise in producing their own scents, very similar to the big names, for a fraction of the price.

Total: Around £20–£30 depending on what you already have

‍If that still feels like too much, just start with one thing. Pick one area - like clean nails or keeping your hair tidy - and build from there.

Pride comes back piece by piece.

coming soon

We're currently working with stylists and image coaches to create simple video guides and practical downloads to help you build confidence through your appearance. Stay tuned!

RECOMMENDED viewing

You don't need a wardrobe overhaul - you need a mindset shift.

We're currently working with stylists and image coaches to bring you simple, real-life video guides tailored for men who want to look sharp without the BS. But in the meantime, here are a couple of YouTube channels you may wish to check out, discussing men's style:

Courtney Ryan - www.youtube.com/@CourtneyRyan - gives great advice from a female perspective

Aaron Marino (Alpha M) - www.youtube.com/@alpham - also gives good advice, but can be an acquired taste!

The Stylish Gentlemen - www.youtube.com/@TheStylishGentlemen - no nonsense, excellent advice without the fluff.
Tells you how it is.